No, its not unusual at all. We often work with married, or dating Birth Parents who chose to make an Adoption Plan together. Every relationship, every pregnancy, and every situation is different. We cant generalize and we dont judge. Couples make Adoption Plans because it is the best choice for the baby, and everyone else involved. Many couples have other children, and one more child will add too much strain to the familys situation. For a Birth Mother, having a partner, husband or boyfriend sharing the decision is a source of comfort and support.