Most women feel more confident about their Adoption Plan when they begin selecting an adoptive family for their child. This part of the process puts the power in the Birth Mothers hands. You will have the opportunity to select a family, meet them, and begin to form a relationship with them. This is your opportunity to ask questions about their parenting plans, why they feel they will be great parents, what is their family and living situation like, and what do they have to offer your child. Being a part of this process can feel very satisfying, and will make you more confident in your decision.
After the adoption is finalized you will be able to see, from the updates or visits, your child is happy, healthy and well adjusted. This knowledge will reinforce your confidence that your adoption decision was the right decision.