Adoption is a heart wrenching and emotional decision. It is normal to question your thoughts and feelings throughout the process. You may waiver over the course of the pregnancy, until you come to a final decision. When you waiver, remember you have carefully considered your decision. Try and remember why you chose an Adoption Plan in the first place. Remember, you committed to an Adoption Plan as it was the best decision for your child and everyone else involved. Remind yourself, your decision was based in love. If you remember why you made the decision it should keep your doubts at bay. Having the opportunity to hand pick a family for your child should make the decision easier, and will help you remain confident in the choice you made.